Thursday, June 13, 2013

The mind, tangled.

This is not a mid night post but i kept having these thoughts in my head. It's creeping onto me. I feel like I've got my heart broken twice this year. It feels pain.

However idiotic he has been, i still feel like I've lost a fraction of my life. It may seem not so important in a few months time but now, it feels painful. 

The biggest withdrawal I feel now is the connection to the group. Cutting off from the group feels difficult. Over the last 6 months, we as a group became friends and suddenly I choose to opt out.. It's pretty harsh. There is this distance that I've created and it hurts to decide to do that. I feel guilty for mistreating people. 

I try to act the way I want to be treated. A principle I feel very reasonable. And now, to do this whole cut off from them to the other friends in the group, I feel awful. If I were in their shoes, I'd feel upset and confuse if someone did what I'm doing.

Why did things have to roll out like this? I rather it not have started at all. Then I won't have to mistreat these people i met and feel the guilt now. 

I believe in doing just my part and the other person receiving will do theirs. As long as I gave it my all, it should return. Despite being let down a couple of times, I still believe. 

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